Thoughts and Prayers

“Don’t just say this is about thoughts and prayers right now, these kids were literally praying. It was the first week of school, they were in a church.”

These are the reported words of the Mayor of Minneapolis, Jacob Fry, after two children were killed and 13 seriously injured in a mass shooting in a service to mark the first day of the new school year at the Church of the Annunciation in that city. The massacre raises hard questions; the ageless dilemma of why a loving and apparently all-powerful God allows such atrocities and what our response should be to these. It is the latter that is particularly exercising me. So often I find myself with people who have suffered loss, sometimes tragically and all I can say is that I will pray for them. I often feel embarrassed as I say that; it feels so inadequate. However, it is sometimes all I can do in that situation and I am a vicar; if I do not pray, I am nothing. I do not think the Mayor was rejecting thoughts and prayers, but that they need to be accompanied by action. This is particularly pertinent in the USA, with its history of regular gun massacres. There is probably nothing we can do about this particular situation other than to pray and empathise, but that ought to leave some mark on us for the future, to strengthen our resolve to reject evil.

Rev David Poyner

The Lone Biker

As I drew up to Billingsley Church yesterday, I noticed a motor bike outside. Now the Bishop of Hereford is a biker so my first reaction was panic was that he was doing an unannounced inspection of the church. But on looking closer, the bike didn’t look like his Harley Davison. On entering the churchyard, I saw a man of a certain age (OK, my age), sitting on a bench with a flask and a sandwich; we greeted each other and he asked if it was OK for him to be there. Of course it was. When I had finished in the church, I went back out and we chatted further. He enjoyed going round churches on his bike; he had a booklet produced by a tourism group on Shropshire churches and was using this as a guide. He liked to visit one church on his bike trip. He complimented me on how well kept the church and the churchyard were, what a lovely spot it was for a bench to enjoy the tranquillity. Then he said words I often hear; “I’m not a religious man, but….”. Being in the churchyard, next to the church, was feeding him spiritually. Even though he might not want to use the word “God”, I suspect his experience was similar to my experience when I kneel in prayer before the altar at a church as I prepare for a service. Perhaps he was closer to the Kingdom of Heaven than he might realise.  

Rev David Poyner

Reinhold Niebuhr’s prayer 80 years on

Reinhold Niebuhr was an American theologian whose work was deeply influenced by the great political turmoils of the mid-20th century. He wrote following prayer in response to the Second World War; even though we have just marked the 80th anniversary of the ending of that war, its words seem as relevant as ever.

Lord, we pray this day mindful of the sorry confusion of our world. Look with mercy upon this generation of your children so steeped in misery of their own contriving, so far strayed from your ways and so blinded by passions.

We pray for the victims of tyranny, that they may resist oppression with courage.

We pray for wicked and cruel people, whose arrogance reveals to us what the sin of our own hearts is like when it has conceived and brought forth its final fruit.

We pray for ourselves who live in peace and quietness, that we may not regard our good fortune as proof of our virtue, or rest content to have our ease at the price of others’ sorrow and tribulation.

We pray for all who have some vision of your will, despite the confusions and betrayals of human sin, that they may humbly and resolutely plan for and fashion the foundations of a just peace, even while they seek to preserve what is fair and just among us against the threat of malignant powers.

Rev David Poyner

VJ Day

This coming Friday will be the 80th anniversary of VJ Day, the ending of the 2nd World War. I am sure the celebrations will be on a smaller scale than VE day back in May, when the war in Europe finished. My impression is that VJ Day was never on the same scale as VE Day, unless families had relatives who were involved in the fighting in the Far East; I have heard those who served there referring to themselves as the forgotten army. It was a far-away conflict, with no home front. It also did not have the simple ending of the war in Europe with (generally) lasting peace in the continent, at least until recently. Then there were the two atom bombs, with arguments continuing about whether they were justified. We will mark VJ Day, by giving thanks for the bravery and sacrifices made by Allied troops and remembering all those who were killed or injured. We will also give thanks there has been no conflict on the scale of World War 2 since it ended, but remembering those conflicts which still exist and praying for our current armed forces. For me, it is a duty to remember these events before God; the rest I can only leave to him/her.

Rev David Poyner

Farewell, Prince of Darkness

Ozzy Osbourne of Black Sabbath is dead; the Black Country mourns… Regular readers of this column will be aware that my musical tastes veer towards Anglican plainsong not heavy metal and I have no idea what Ozzy and Black Sabbath actually sounded like. However, I know many people do admire their music and he and the band were cultural icons. He revelled in the title “Prince of Darkness”; perhaps more than anyone else he epitomised the life of the outrageous rock star with sex and especially drugs. Perhaps his excesses shortened his life. But, at the end, I was struck by one thing. One his coffin, as it was processed through the Birmingham and the Black Country was a cross, made of flowers. The Prince of Darkness, or at least his family, chose the symbol of the King of Heaven to be closest to him at that point. In interviews, Osbourne sometimes said that he believed in God, he was brought up a Christian and I do not think he ever renounced that faith. A fascinating commentary on his faith is at Silence in the Dark: Exploring the Faith of Ozzy Osbourne | by Alan Lechusza | Jul, 2025 | Medium This argues that he had a real faith, strong enough to ask hard questions, strong enough to live with uncertainty and his own failings, to explore answers in the poetry of song. That sounds rather like my faith; perhaps I need to listen to some of his records.

Rev David Poyner

We the Patriarchs and Heads of Churches in Jerusalem

Earlier this month, reports appeared of an attack on a Roman Catholic church in Gaza. In response, this is the statement was issued by all the church leaders in Jerusalem including Archbishop Naoum, head of the Anglican Church in Jerusalem and the Middle East.

“We, the Patriarchs and Heads of the Churches in Jerusalem, join together in profound solidarity with the Latin Patriarchate of Jerusalem and the people sheltering in Holy Family Catholic Church in Gaza, as we bear witness to the heinous attack by the Israeli Army on the church compound there on Thursday morning, July 17, 2025. This attack not only caused damage to the Church complex, but also left three dead and ten wounded-with even the parish priest, Fr Gabriel Romanelli, being among the injured.

In unyielding unity, we strongly denounce this crime. Houses of worship are sacred spaces that should be kept safe. They are also protected under international law. Targeting a church that houses approximately 600 refugees, including children with special needs, is a violation of these laws. It is also an affront to human dignity, a trampling upon the sanctity of human life, and the desecration of a holy site.

We, the Patriarchs and Heads of Churches in Jerusalem, call upon world leaders and United Nations agencies to work towards an immediate ceasefire in Gaza that leads to an end of this war. We also implore them to guarantee the protection of all religious and humanitarian sites, and to provide for the relief of the starving masses throughout the Gaza Strip.

Our prayers and support remain steadfast, calling for justice, peace, and the cessation of the suffering that has descended upon the people of Gaza.”

Rev David Poyner

St Mary’s Church, Highley – Churchyard Safety Update

The Parochial Church Council (PCC) of St Mary’s Highley wishes to inform the community that, following a recent safety inspection of the churchyard, several headstones have been identified as unstable. In line with diocesan guidance and in the interest of public safety, these headstones have been carefully laid flat.

We fully understand that this may cause distress, especially to those with loved ones buried in the churchyard. Please accept our sincere apologies for any upset this has caused. While the action was taken with safety in mind, we acknowledge that the village should have been informed beforehand. We are taking steps to ensure that future actions will be clearly communicated in advance.

To help identify the affected graves

  • Red tape will be placed on each headstone requiring attention.
  • A full list of names on these headstones will be made available soon on our church website and noticeboard.

If one of these headstones belongs to your family or someone you know, we kindly ask that you contact a qualified stonemason to assess and carry out any necessary repairs.

We are grateful for your patience, understanding, and continued support as we work to maintain a safe, respectful, and dignified environment for all who visit the churchyard.

For any questions or concerns, please contact:

Carl Hinkinson (Churchwarden)

Email: chinkinson4@gmail.com

Mobile: 07722 031585

With every blessing,
The PCC of St Mary’s Church, Highley

Caring for God’s Acre

Caring for God’s Acre is an organisation that manages churchyards for wildlife.  They help us at Billingsley; four times a year they come and cut back the grass and other vegetation with a scythe. This is a very traditional way of maintaining churchyards; once the vicar would have claimed the grass to make hay. It also promotes wildlife; flowers, birds and insects. How to look after churchyards is something that sharply divides opinion. At another of our churches, Glazeley, it is managed as a lawn with the grass closely cropped and immaculate flower beds. Neither style is right or wrong; Billingsley is aimed at wildlife, but Glazeley is preferred by many visitors, especially those with relatives buried in the churchyard. At Billingsley, we have now extended the area we mow to try and get a better balance. However it is managed, the churchyard is a sacred space where people can sit, stare and, whether they acknowledge it or not, be in the presence of God.  It is no accident that in the creation poem in Genesis 2, God is creates a garden where he walks in, to meet Adam and Eve, representing humanity. That is exactly what takes place in churchyards, God’s Acre.

Rev David Poyner

Deja Vu

Last Saturday I went to Hereford Cathedral; a colleague was being ordained priest and I was there to support her. It was seven years since I was ordained deacon, six years since I was made priest, all in the same cathedral. I wasn’t really sure how I would react; this was the first ordination I had been to since my own. I robed and processed with the other clergy and then waited, to see if I would feel anything. The short answer was not much to start with. The singing was good, I think the sermon would have been good but I wasn’t properly listening to it. My fault, not that of the preacher. Then, suddenly it changed. There was movement, the people to be ordained came forward and the Bishop read the “ordination charge”; if you like, the job description for a vicar. It is lengthy and not for the faint-hearted. I remembered my own feeling when I was standing; inadequacy. But then the Bishop is up front; “you cannot bear this charge alone; pray for the Holy Spirit” and I realised I was fighting back my own emotion, just as I had been when I was ordained. After that it was a whirl as the service rapidly moved to the Bishop laying his hands on the head of each candidate, the moment of ordination. My colleague told be afterwards that, out of the blue, that is when the tears came to her; I told her exactly the same had happened to me. I’m not sure if there is any big message in all of this. All I can say is that I was moved and I felt humbled; I hope as I go about my work today as a vicar, I carry those feelings with me.

Rev David Poyner

In the Groove

Did you watch Rod Stewart at Glastonbury last week; still in his 80s, still doing what some call singing? Or there is the Oasis reunion concert this weekend in Cardiff, 30 years on, still making music, probably still falling out with each other backstage. I didn’t watch Glastonbury and I will not be listening to Oasis; my idea of good music is Anglican plainsong. But something I have come to appreciate is passion in others for music. A few years ago I was in a pub in Nottingham; a guitarist was playing. His music meant nothing to me, but I was captivated by the man himself, totally at one with his guitar, living and moving with the sounds he was making. I suspect, at that moment, nothing else mattered for him but his music. So I suspect with the big stars who simply can’t stop performing; somewhere in the mix is the sheer joy of what they are doing. I rather doubt whether my pub guitarist, Rod Stewart or the Gallagher brothers are big on organised religion. However I suspect when they perform, living for their music, they experience something spiritual that takes them from the mundane and points to the higher glory that I call God.

Rev David Poyner